Nearly all children experience short periods of anxiety and worry in their lives. For example, very young children tend to go through phases of fearing the dark, loud noises or large animals. Older children will experience periods of anxiety when separated from their parents for the first time, taking a difficult test, or giving a presentation in front of the class.
The difference between these normal feelings of anxiety and the presence of GAD or another anxiety disorder is that a child with generalized anxiety disorder will experience an extended and extensive period of worry, and the degree of anxiety and fear is notably out of proportion to the reality of the situation.
As an example, let’s say your child is anxious about an impending thunderstorm. If the feeling of anxiety is minor (your child may express some nervousness or apprehension, but is comforted by asking questions and receiving reassurance), lasts for only a short time leading up to the storm, and is replaced by a return to calm and a normal routine immediately afterwards, this can be interpreted as a passing bout of anxiety.
However, if your child begins to fret at the first sign of darkening clouds and is significantly distressed (to the point that she may feel physically ill, can’t focus on schoolwork or play, and isn’t soothed by parents’ reassurance), this can be a warning sign of an anxiety disorder.