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  Preparing for an overnight stay
  Talking with your child about the hospital
  Books to help your child prepare
  Preparing yourself for your child's hospital stay
  Tips: Making the most of your visit
  Preparing for surgery
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Ask your child what special things he or she would like to take to the hospital, for example, blankets, pillows, music, stuffed animals, toys, photographs, videos, books, cassette tapes and snacks.

Read books together about going to the doctor or hospital. The children's book section of many bookstores has picture or storybooks about illness, visits to the doctor or visits to the hospital for an operation or test. For a list of books, see the Children's Hospital information sheet, Books to Prepare.

Find ways to help your child cope with a difficult situation in the hospital. There are many things you can do to help your child get through a painful or frightening procedure. You may already know ways to help your child. It usually works best if you and your child practice these things when your child feels comfortable and safe before the hospital stay. Here are some suggestions:

Things Children Can Do to Cope Things Parents Can Do to Cope
  • Breathe deeply.
  • Blow bubbles.
  • Pretend to blow the candles out on a birthday cake.
  • Think about a happy or fun time, and pretend to be there.
  • Tell stories or sing aloud.
  • Count backwards.
  • Squeeze your hand.
  • Listen to music.
  • Look at a picture or a toy.
  • Tell your child what to expect.
  • Use a calm, soothing voice.
  • Reassure your child.
  • Coach your child.
  • Give encouragement.
  • Hold your child's hand.
  • Stroke your child's face or arm.
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