Looking at my 10-month-old pulling up to a stand with his muscle closure still not done, I am amazed at all Dominic can do and how far we have come.
Hearing the news
At 19 weeks, my husband and I were told the words you never want to hear when you are pregnant: "There's a problem with the baby." Our obstetrician went on to tell us that the baby had an omphalocele which is a large hernia in the abdominal wall. But unfortunately it was also tied to Trisomy 13, 18 and many other syndromes. And 50 percent of these babies have other anomalies like heart, spine and kidney defects.
After the pain of two miscarriages this was something we did not want to hear, I felt my world crash around me.
Diagnostic tests
We were immediately scheduled at Brigham and Women's Hospital's high-risk Obstetrics Group for a level 2 ultrasound. After a very long ultrasound we found out our baby boy's complete liver, stomach and some bowel were outside the body located in a sac in the umbilical cord, this was considered a large or giant omphalocele. We then had an amniocentesis and the next day were given the good news that early tests showed no chromosome abnormalities. With this news we were told we would be receiving a phone call from the Advanced Fetal Care Center at Children's Hospital Boston.
More resources and support
Meanwhile I found a wonderful website online The MOOS "Mothers of Omphalocele Babies." They were able to give me so much information and support, that when I came to Children's I was very well-versed in the different procedures that could be used to repair an omphalocele.
"Long Day at Children's"
Luanne P. Nemes, RN, MS, PNP, called the next day to set up what I have dubbed our "Long Day at Children's." She scheduled us for an MRI, Fetal Echo cardiogram, surgical consult and genetics consult. Luanne, as much as she couldn't ease my anxiety, was so sweet and understanding, it was wonderful knowing someone was coordinating everything because at that point I could not function.
With the diagnosis of an omphalocele the waiting is agonizing, you can only step forward into the unknown, trusting God, and wait as one of the most amazing hospitals in the world gathers more and more information about your baby.
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