Stages of play

As you'd expect, children at different ages don't all play the same way. There are distinct stages that children go through as they grow. Each stage is very important to the development of the next. While not all children are the same and may not progress through the stages at the same time, the following are common types of play grouped according to your child's age:

• infant: An infant enjoys playing alone. Physical movements are random and not purposeful.
• toddler: A toddler enjoys playing independently with toys. He particularly enjoys playing with toys that include body movement.
• preschooler: A preschooler enjoys watching his peers and imitating others, with only some interaction while actually playing. Older preschool children begin to borrow and lend toys. This age group often initiates make-believe play.
• school-aged child: A school-aged child enjoys competitive games and sports, formal board games, and still engages in some fantasy play. Rules are important during play with the school-aged child.
• adolescent: An adolescent enjoys competitive games and sports. The goal of this age group is social contact.